Ashley: ŇOpen your eyes, if you suspect your child is into something, doing something wrong, more than likely they are. Take your blinders off and investigate the situation. Call the other parents. Make the child stay in contact with you. When they get home at night, make them come in and say Ôhello.Ő Look at them. Check them out. Make sure theyŐre doing what they say theyŐre doing. If they know theyŐre going to have to be accountable to you more than likely theyŐll tow the line.  And you have to be involved. You canŐt be lazy. ItŐs your responsibility to make sure your child is safe. ItŐs not an easy job. ItŐs not an easy task. But you have to do it.Ó